We wake up in the morning and whine about that dress we
wanted to wear to the office, and the servant has not gotten it from the dry cleaners, we can’t choose a pair of sandals because we have so many of them
that it takes time to decide and hence we feel, such an awful morning it is! The
kid in the house is at the breakfast table and wants to eat spaghetti, and says
no to fruits and healthy snacks, and complains that he can’t even have his
favorite meal for breakfast, mom! You ruined my day!The little brat of the
house is fighting for the remote, because he wants to watch a particular
cartoon and his little brother is watching something else.
The wife is being sarcastic to her husband about their trip
to Europe, which has been postponed due to certain commitments! The husband
owns a decent car, but the neighbor’s friend has a better one and has booked
the same for himself, still is sad, because he has to attend a party tomorrow
and has to use the old car. And thinks, God! I live in such a misery.The next morning the
wife demands, “Darling, I want a Jacuzzi, You know it has so many benefits,
from massaging to relaxation to a calm mind” The husband gently nods!
A healthy and wealthy family, indeed!! Having house help of
around 6 people! One of them is Babli, around 13-14 years old! Works with her
mother in this house, basically helps her mother and also plays with the
children of the house. She is a very sensible child, very sincere with her work
and whenever finds time, she takes out the books of 10 year old and tries to
read and learn. She left school when she was 8, stays at a neighboring slum. She
likes to learn English and listens carefully when the family is conversing in
it! She never envies the expensive gadgets, the branded clothes or the home theater or play stations!
All she craves to own is the servant’s toilet of the house,
which a basic toilet with running water facility. Because there is no public
toilet in the locality, they are forced to go out in the fields, and since she
has started to menstruate, it is more problematic for her in those days. And
during the night, she needs to accompany herself with a friend or two before
stepping out in the fields. She also wants to rejoin her school, so that she
can study and apart from the school timings she is can help her mother with the
work.
How sad it is, that a child whose fate leads her to take
birth in a poor family, subsequently, she has no right to have education, and
no right to have even a public toilet in her locality, cleanliness of toilets
is altogether a different issue. Even if certain rural areas now have toilets,
they do not have running water, people have to fill buckets of water and take
it there, and of course no cleaning which only leads to diseases and is very
unsafe for females.
And what do we do? We are so self centered that we can’t
even share our things with family and friends, forget about helping someone
unknown, we all are so busy with our lives, earning more and more, that we don’t
have time for charity! We can donate certain facilities at least to our maids, ,
who help us throughout! But no! when we are already dissatisfied with our
lives, even after having all the fancy things, we don’t have time to offer help
to those in need! We are busy competing with our friends and relatives, not
being thankful for what we already have. No wonder, we feel restless and
displeased.
India, in the 21st century, still has 597 million people defecating in the open. This is mainly due to lack of sanitation facilities. Lack of toilets and the lack of hygiene amenities are the reason for feeble health and a rise in ailments. Women are most impacted by the lack of sanitation facilities in our country. They face major issues related to health and safety which also impacts their dignity. Blog about #ToiletForBabli and join Domex in their latest initiative to help make villages ‘open-defecation’ free.
This post is a part of the initiative #Toilet for Babli taken by Indiblogger.
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