Kids take
pleasure from little things in life. Their achievements are winning a silly game,
racing till the school, getting that answer in math class accurate, be teacher’s
pet, be the first one to raise their hand when they know the answer, telling mom,
stories from the school and the playground, building that sand castle, drawing
that lovely picture and gifting it to a relative, cutting a birthday cake,
opening up gifts, licking the ice-cream, eating their favorite chocolate, doing
something naughty and blaming the elder sibling for it, never stop competing
with the people around them, watch their favorite cartoon, craving for that
extra love from parents , waiting for a praise and feel like the king of the
world, getting their arms bruised and pretend in front of friends that they are
not in pain and how brave they are! (Although going back home and crying in mom’s
lap). Nothing in the world can replace this pleasure not even money or power.
It is their innocence which takes pride in accomplishing petite things and
enjoying life to the fullest.
A family is
complete when you see kids running around. But when kids are not at home, every
nook and corner echoes their shrieks and laughter and their presence is missed.
However kids can be tough at times. Not to blame them, it’s with age when they
realize what is right and what is not so right, for them. That’s what parents
are for! (Oops!). Speaking of a difficult child to raise, I was one of them
(Though, not proud of it). My brother and I were the life of the house, apple
of my parent’s eyes. My laughter could be heard even a few blocks away. I was
the naughty one and always came up with something to attract everyone’s
attention. I was the youngest in the family hence the most pampered one. My dad
spoilt me the most, by fulfilling all my desires.Everyone adored me. And my
brother was the quiet one, so he was praised a lot and I always used to be
jealous of him.
The sweet elder brother and the spoilt brat! |
But I was very finicky when it came to food. I
was only fond of cold drinks, ice cream, chocolates and Maggi! I used to loathe
to eat vegetables, so I hardly ate any (Yes, I was that fussy). I did not like
to drink milk either. For apparent reasons my power of immunity was very low
and even my height was not at par with my friends. Because of my wrong food
habits, my eyesight became weak and soon I had to wear glasses. I couldn’t play
outdoors because even a scratch on my arm would take months to heal. So,
whenever I played in the open, if I fell it used to be a hassle. All this was a
result of my unhealthy eating habits and because of my stubborn attitude nobody
could force feed me.
My parents were highly concerned since my
health was suffering. To begin with, my parents lovingly explained me the
issues I was facing and the ways of getting rid of them. I could understand
that what they are saying is for my good but I used to take a sense of joy in
over ruling them (silly me!), so I didn’t listen to them.
Then I did
not leave them with any option than being strict with me. They made a diet
routine for me and I had to follow it without fail, which included a glass of
milk in the morning with almonds, fruits at noon, proper meal in the afternoon
and night, and a spoon full of Chyawanprash with milk at bedtime. It was not so
easy to adapt it but slowly gradually it became a habit for me and started to
like it.
I was allowed to cheat on weekends when I
could have pastries and chocolates and maggi! Within months I stopped falling
sick so often, started to play around merrily. I was not among the weak
children anymore; I could enjoy the rains, splash in the puddles without
falling ill. I made new friends, did not bunk school because of being unwell,
could be more attentive and need not worry about my health. I became hale and hearty.
All this took me a healthy diet and regular intake of Dabur Chyawanprash.
As it is
difficult for children to stay under constant pressure of school and studies
and several other competitions, it is equally challenging for parents to manage
everything, they give us enough space to discover our own talent and keep
reminding us, the necessary things in life.
Parents raise
their children in such a way that they should be happy at the moment and even
their future should be safe and secured. Because sometimes what happens is, at
the cost of today’s happiness the child may risk his future but parents have
that art of balancing both the things. The child is allowed to do whatever he
wants to, so that he is happy doing it but also make sure that in coming days
he won’t regret it and be equally happy. The love, care and affection which a
parent has for a child is unconditional, a parent leaves no stone unturned when
it comes to raising their child in the best possible manner.
This post is written for Dabur's contest on Indiblogger "a healthy child makes a happy home" drawing from personal experience and tell how a healthy child makes for a happy home.
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